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Genuine love goes beyond mere words.

Rev. Dr. Cecil W Thorn

True love is more than words; it requires action rooted in truth. As 1 John 3:18 (ESV) reminds us, “Little children, let us not love in word or speech, but in action and in truth.” Telling the truth to others, especially when it challenges or confronts, is an act of love because it prioritizes their ultimate good over our comfort. Truth spoken in love leads others toward understanding, growth, and alignment with God’s will, even when it feels uncomfortable in the moment. This kind of love refuses to settle for mere pleasantries or avoidance but courageously seeks what is best for others.

“The one who does not love does not know God, because God is love” (1 John 4:8 (ESV)). If God is love, then love and truth are inseparable. When we share truth with others, it must flow from the love we have received from God. 1 John 4:19 (ESV) says, “We love because he first loved us.” God’s love enables us to love others with sincerity, even when speaking difficult truths. Whether it’s addressing harmful choices or sharing the hope of the gospel, speaking truth shows that we care about their spiritual well-being and eternal destiny more than preserving superficial harmony.

Loving others through truth also means obeying God’s commands, for “This is how we know that we love God’s children: when we love God and obey his commands” (1 John 5:2 (ESV)). Love compels us to speak truthfully because God’s commands guide us toward life and freedom. As verse 5:3 assures us, “His commands are not a burden.” When we lovingly share the truth, we reflect God’s character and extend His grace. It isn’t about condemnation but about helping others see the light of Christ and the path to a transformed life. True love, grounded in action and truth, always seeks the best for others—even if it requires difficult conversations.

Showing God’s love when discussing difficult topics like homosexuality and abortion requires a balance of truth, grace, and compassion. It begins with recognizing that every person is made in the image of God and is deeply loved by Him. This perspective helps us approach conversations with humility and respect, rather than judgment or hostility. As we engage, our tone and demeanor should reflect the kindness and patience of Christ, ensuring that people feel valued even if they disagree with us.

God’s love is inseparable from truth. As 1 John 3:18 (ESV) says, love is shown “in action and in truth.” Speaking the truth about these sensitive issues is an act of love because it aligns with God’s design and leads to human flourishing. However, truth must always be delivered with gentleness and care (Ephesians 4:15 (ESV)). Our goal is not to win arguments but to point others toward God’s redemptive grace. Sharing how God’s commands bring life and freedom can help others see His heart behind these teachings.

Finally, we show God’s love by listening well and meeting people where they are. We acknowledge their struggles and experiences without compromising biblical truth. We extend hope by pointing to Jesus, who offers forgiveness, healing, and transformation. In every conversation, we should aim to reflect Christ’s love—a love that speaks truth boldly yet tenderly, and that seeks not to condemn but to restore and reconcile.

When discussing challenging topics like homosexuality and abortion, we are called to approach them with truth, grace, and love, reflecting God’s character. Scripture provides guidance on how to embody His love while addressing these matters. Below are key verses that offer wisdom on speaking truth in love:

1. Speak the truth in love

“Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ.”
— Ephesians 4:15 (ESV)

This verse reminds us that truth and love are inseparable in the life of a believer. When we speak about sensitive topics, our words must reflect Christ’s compassion and care, guiding others toward understanding without hostility or judgment.

2. Let your words be gracious

“Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.”
— Colossians 4:6 (ESV)

Gracious speech means offering words that are kind, respectful, and wise, even when addressing moral or controversial issues. It ensures that the conversation remains constructive and points others toward the hope found in Christ.

3. Correct with gentleness

“And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth.”
— 2 Timothy 2:24-25 (ESV)

When discussing hard topics, we are instructed to avoid quarrels and instead correct others with gentleness. This approach leaves room for the Holy Spirit to work in their hearts, leading them to repentance and truth.

4. Love as God loved us

“Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.”
— 1 John 4:7 (ESV)

True love comes from God and is the foundation for all our interactions. This love doesn’t compromise truth but seeks the good of others, helping them align with God’s design for their lives.

5. Proclaim the truth of life

“For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.”
— Psalm 139:13-14 (ESV)

This passage affirms the sanctity of life from conception, reminding us of God’s intimate involvement in creation. Sharing such truths should inspire awe and a deep respect for human life while emphasizing the love and care God has for every individual.

6. Point to God’s design for relationships

“So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.”
— Genesis 1:27 (ESV)

“Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.”
— Genesis 2:24 (ESV)

These verses highlight God’s design for relationships and marriage. Sharing these truths should always be framed by love, focusing on God’s desire for human flourishing.

Summary

To show God’s love when addressing sensitive topics, we must balance truth with compassion. Scripture calls us to speak graciously, correct gently, and remain rooted in love, always pointing others toward God’s perfect design and the redemption available through Christ.

EXAMPLES

Here are some practical examples of how to show God’s love when speaking about challenging topics like homosexuality and abortion, guided by Scripture:

Homosexuality Example

Scenario: A friend shares they are in a same-sex relationship and asks for your opinion.

Response:

Acknowledge their humanity and worth:
- “Thank you for trusting me with this. I want you to know that I care deeply about you, and I believe you are loved by God.”
- Reflect 1 John 4:7 (ESV): “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God.”
Speak truth with gentleness:
- “As a Christian, I believe God’s design for relationships is outlined in Scripture, and it’s meant to reflect His love for us. That includes marriage between a man and a woman (Genesis 2:24 (ESV)). But that doesn’t change my care for you, and I want to keep talking about this if you’re open.”
- Reflect Ephesians 4:15 (ESV): “Speaking the truth in love.”
Offer support and invite dialogue:
- “I know this might be hard to hear, but my hope is to walk alongside you. Let’s keep this conversation going.”
- Reflect Colossians 4:6 (ESV): “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt.”

Abortion Example

Scenario: A coworker tells you they are considering an abortion due to financial struggles.

Response:

Show compassion and empathy:
- “I can’t imagine how hard this must be for you. I want you to know I’m here to listen and support you however I can.”
- Reflect 2 Timothy 2:24-25 (ESV): “Be kind to everyone… correcting opponents with gentleness.”
Gently share the value of life:
- “I believe every life is precious, including the baby’s life and your life. Psalm 139 tells us that God formed each of us in the womb, and He loves you and your child deeply.”
- Reflect Psalm 139:13-14 (ESV): “You knitted me together in my mother’s womb.”
Provide practical help:
- “If you’re open to it, I’d love to connect you with resources or organizations that can support you during this time. You’re not alone in this.”
- Reflect 1 John 3:18 (ESV): “Let us not love in word or speech, but in action and in truth.”

General Approach

Focus on their value to God:
- Remind them that their worth is not defined by their choices or struggles but by God’s love for them.
- “God loves you so much that He sent His Son to die for you. Nothing you face is too big for Him to handle.”
- Reflect John 3:16 (ESV): “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son.”
Share your personal story if relevant:
- “I’ve wrestled with understanding God’s truth and His grace in my own life. I’m here to share what I’ve learned and walk this journey with you.”

By showing empathy, sharing biblical truth, and offering tangible support, we embody God’s love while addressing these sensitive topics.

My Thoughts

In our spiritual journey, speaking truth and love are central to living out our faith authentically. The Bible teaches us to “speak the truth in love” (Ephesians 4:15), reminding us that our words have the power to build up or tear down. When we speak with love, we offer truth not as a weapon, but as a tool for healing and growth. It’s easy to let frustration or anger guide our words, but in doing so, we risk hurting others and straying from God’s calling to love one another. True love doesn’t shy away from speaking the truth, but it delivers that truth with kindness, patience, and compassion, reflecting the heart of Christ.

In all things, we are called to be agents of reconciliation, showing that truth and love can coexist harmoniously. The world often presents us with challenges, misunderstanding, and division, but as followers of Christ, we are tasked with overcoming these obstacles by speaking truth boldly and lovingly. Each conversation is an opportunity to reflect God’s love and to speak His truth into the lives of those around us. When we balance truth with love, we not only honor God, but we also help others experience His grace and mercy in a powerful way. Through our words and actions, we can become a living testimony to the transformative power of both truth and love in a broken world.

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Sanctity of Life

Rev. Cecil W Thorn, ThD

In a world where the value of life is often debated, the Scriptures present an unwavering perspective on its sanctity. From the beginning, God established human life as sacred, weaving His divine image into each soul and setting humanity apart with inherent dignity. His provision, care, and intentional design extend to all—both the born and the unborn. By examining God’s Word, we can see that every life holds unique worth and purpose in His eyes. Through His love, we are called to honor, protect, and value life in all its stages, acknowledging that each person is part of His divine plan. This study will explore the sanctity of life as revealed in Scripture, God’s intentional provision for every person, and the high value He places on life, inviting us to reflect on our role in honoring His creation.

1. Sanctity of Life

Genesis 1:27
“So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.”

Commentary
This foundational verse establishes the sanctity of human life, as it reveals that humans are created in God’s own image. This divine imprint endows every person with inherent worth and dignity. The sanctity of life stems from this divine creation, underscoring that every life, from conception, holds sacred value because it reflects the Creator Himself. Human life is, therefore, not merely biological but imbued with spiritual significance and worth.

Psalm 139:13-16
“For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb… Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.”

Commentary
David’s words emphasize God’s intimate knowledge and care for each life, even in the womb. This passage highlights that God not only creates life but also actively shapes and knows each person before birth. The detailed care God takes in forming each individual underscores the sanctity of every human life, as each one is precious and purposed by God Himself.

2. God’s Provision for Both the Born and Unborn

Jeremiah 1:5
“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet to the nations.”

Commentary
God’s words to Jeremiah reveal that He not only forms each person in the womb but has purposes and plans for each life even before birth. This affirms the worth of the unborn and God’s intimate involvement in each life. The notion that God knows and calls individuals before they are born emphasizes His provision and value for life from its very inception.

Isaiah 46:3-4
“Listen to me, O house of Jacob, all the remnant of the house of Israel, who have been borne by me from before your birth, carried from the womb; even to your old age I am he, and to gray hairs I will carry you. I have made, and I will bear; I will carry and will save.”

Commentary
This passage highlights God’s provision and care from conception through every stage of life. The imagery of God carrying His people from the womb to old age reflects His unfailing support and provision. It underscores the value He places on each person’s life journey, affirming that His concern spans all of life, born and unborn alike.

3. Value God Places on Life

Deuteronomy 30:19
“I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and curse. Therefore choose life, that you and your offspring may live.”

Commentary
God’s exhortation to “choose life” indicates that He values life as a precious gift. This choice reflects His desire for individuals and communities to embrace life in alignment with His will. It speaks to the communal aspect of valuing life, encouraging actions that honor and sustain life not only for the individual but for future generations.

John 10:10
“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.”

Commentary
Jesus’ words in John emphasize His mission to bring abundant life, contrasting sharply with the destruction caused by sin. Jesus’ desire for people to experience fullness of life underscores God’s ultimate value on life itself—not just existence, but a life enriched by His presence and purpose. It is a call to live lives that reflect God’s image, value His creation, and uphold the sanctity of life in every form.

My Thoughts

The Scriptures present an unmistakable message about the sanctity and value of life. Through verses that span the Bible, we see God’s intentional creation, provision, and plan for every person, from conception to old age. Life is more than biological existence; it’s a sacred reflection of God’s image, woven with purpose and worth by the Creator Himself. This calls us not only to recognize life’s value but to act as stewards, protecting and honoring life in all stages. As we journey through this study, may we deepen our understanding of God’s heart for humanity and feel compelled to uphold the dignity and sacredness of every life. Through honoring life, we honor Him who is the source of life itself.

Who formed you

Rev. Dr. Cecil W Thorn, ThD

Doctor Willy Parker, an OB/GYN Abortionist said that until the fetus has passed through the birth canal it is not a baby.

God said that he formed you from the womb and called you by name.

Isaiah 43:1 (ESV): “But now thus says the Lord, he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: ‘Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine.'”

Isaiah 44:24 (ESV): “Thus says the Lord, your Redeemer, who formed you from the womb: ‘I am the Lord, who made all things, who alone stretched out the heavens, who spread out the earth by myself.'”

Dr. Willie Parker, an OB/GYN and pro-choice advocate, argues that personhood begins after birth, stating that until the fetus has passed through the birth canal, it is not yet a “baby.” His stance aligns with a secular, scientific perspective on when life becomes a person with moral and legal rights, often linked to viability outside the womb or actual birth.

However, this view directly contrasts with the biblical perspective, particularly as seen in Isaiah 44:24 (ESV) and other Scriptures, where God declares His involvement with humanity even from conception. In Isaiah 44:24 (ESV), God says, “Thus says the Lord, your Redeemer, who formed you from the womb…” This suggests that God’s relationship with and knowledge of a person begins long before birth. Additionally, in Jeremiah 1:5 (ESV), God says, “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet to the nations.” This conveys the idea that human life, identity, and purpose are known to God from the earliest stages of development.

Contrasting Perspectives:

Secular View (Dr. Parker):

Dr. Parker’s perspective reflects the belief that the unborn fetus lacks full personhood until birth. His argument is grounded in the notion that legal and moral personhood is established at birth, a view that is common in pro-choice advocacy.
This belief often emphasizes a woman’s autonomy over her body and the fetus as dependent tissue until it can survive independently outside the womb. Viability and birth are seen as the markers of becoming a “baby” or person with full rights.

Biblical View:

The Bible presents a view of personhood that begins before birth, where the individual is formed by God and known to Him in a deeply personal way. God is described as intimately involved in the creation of life from conception, highlighting the sacredness of life in the womb.
Scriptures like Psalm 139:13-16 (ESV) depict God’s active role in forming a person in the womb: “For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb…Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.”

Key Implications:

Sanctity of Life: The biblical viewpoint affirms that life, identity, and purpose begin at conception, not birth. God’s knowledge and calling of individuals “from the womb” indicates that even in the earliest stages of development, the fetus is seen as fully human and sacred.
Moral Responsibility: According to Scripture, human life is not a matter of personal definition or subject to societal norms about when personhood begins. If God knows and forms a person from the womb, then human beings are morally responsible to protect and honor life even before birth.
Tension with Modern Thought: Dr. Parker’s position reflects a modern, secular worldview, emphasizing individual autonomy and defining personhood at birth. In contrast, the biblical worldview asserts that life’s value is inherent and bestowed by God from conception, which carries implications for how we approach issues like abortion, bioethics, and human dignity.

In summary, the contrast between Dr. Parker’s statement and God’s declaration in Scripture highlights a fundamental divide between secular and biblical views on when life begins. For believers who uphold the sanctity of life as revealed in the Bible, personhood and divine purpose are present even in the womb, challenging the notion that a fetus is not fully human until birth.

The narrative that a developing fetus is “nothing but a clump of cells” is often used to downplay the humanity of the unborn child, presenting it as a non-person or a mere biological entity that lacks significance. This idea suggests that the woman has no inherent emotional or moral connection to the life within her, thus reducing the ethical weight of decisions like abortion. However, this perspective stands in stark contrast to the biblical view, where life, even in its earliest stages, is portrayed as fully human, sacred, and intimately known by God.

Modern View: “A Clump of Cells”

The notion that a fetus is merely a “clump of cells” typically arises from a biological and reductionist viewpoint. In the early stages of development, the embryo is indeed a cluster of rapidly dividing cells. This fact is used to justify the idea that the fetus has not yet developed enough to be considered a person with moral rights or a connection to the mother. This perspective often disconnects the mother from the reality of the life growing inside her, making decisions like abortion seem less significant because the fetus is dehumanized.

Dehumanization: Referring to the unborn child as a “clump of cells” strips away its personhood and identity. This language can lead women to feel detached from the life they are carrying, reinforcing the notion that it’s not a “baby” or a “life” yet, so they don’t need to feel guilty about ending it.
Autonomy: In this framework, the focus shifts to the woman’s autonomy and control over her own body. If the life inside her is viewed as not yet human, it reinforces the belief that the woman has full authority over it, free from moral obligations to the developing child.

Biblical View: Life is Fully Human and Sacred

The biblical perspective challenges this reductionist view by affirming that life begins at conception and that this life is fully human, purposeful, and sacred from its earliest moments. God is described as intimately involved in the creation of life, and His care for the unborn child signifies a connection that exists between the mother, the child, and God.

God’s Involvement in Creation: Verses like Jeremiah 1:5 (ESV) (“Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you”) and Psalm 139:13-16 (ESV) (“For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb”) show that God sees life as sacred from the moment of conception. The child is not a “clump of cells” but a life created with purpose, known and loved by God even before birth.
Sanctity of Life: The Bible declares that all life is sacred because it is made in the image of God (Genesis 1:27 (ESV)). From conception, every person bears the imprint of God’s image, meaning that life in the womb carries inherent value and worth. This sanctity transcends scientific definitions of life stages and viability.

Emotional and Spiritual Connection

The biblical view emphasizes not only the sacredness of the unborn child but also the profound connection between the mother and this life. By presenting the unborn child as fully human and known by God, Scripture encourages mothers to recognize the inherent connection they have with the life inside them.

Emotional Bond: Pregnancy is more than a biological process; it is deeply emotional and spiritual. The reductionist view of the fetus as just a “clump of cells” can numb women to the reality of the child they are carrying. By recognizing that the unborn life is sacred and fully human, the Bible encourages a mother to nurture a sense of love, protection, and responsibility for her child from the earliest stages.
Spiritual Responsibility: If the life in the womb is sacred and divinely created, a mother’s connection to it is not merely biological but spiritual. This affirms the moral responsibility to care for and protect that life, which is more than a physical part of her body—it is a new, individual life with its own identity, ordained by God.

Societal Impact

The “clump of cells” narrative has larger societal implications, as it can desensitize people to the moral and emotional weight of abortion. This perspective influences culture by normalizing abortion and stripping away the inherent connection between mother and child, leading to the devaluation of unborn life.

Cultural Consequences: When society adopts the view that life in the womb is not fully human or significant, it contributes to a broader devaluation of human life, both before and after birth. This mindset not only affects views on abortion but also weakens society’s regard for the vulnerable, the elderly, and others who may be considered “less” human.
Spiritual Disconnect: By ignoring the spiritual reality of life in the womb, this viewpoint creates a disconnection from God’s design for life. It suppresses the deeper truths about creation, motherhood, and the moral responsibility to honor and protect life at all stages.

The Call to Recognize Sacredness

For women being told that the life in their womb is “just a clump of cells,” the biblical response is an invitation to recognize the sacredness and value of that life. The Bible portrays pregnancy as a profound moment of creation where God is actively involved. Mothers are encouraged to see their role as co-creators with God, entrusted with the responsibility of nurturing and protecting this new life.

In conclusion, while modern society may promote the idea that there is no connection between a mother and the “clump of cells” in her womb, God declares that life in the womb is fully human, sacred, and intimately known by Him. The biblical view restores the profound emotional and spiritual connection between a mother and her unborn child, challenging the dehumanizing narrative and calling for a recognition of the sanctity of all human life.

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