Love is not just a feeling—it’s a commitment to truth, even when that truth is hard to hear. In today’s world, where comfort and convenience often take priority over honesty, speaking truth in love can be a challenge. But real love isn’t about avoiding discomfort; it’s about caring enough to say what needs to be said.
Love Speaks Truth
Ephesians 4:15 (ESV) reminds us, “Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ.” If we truly love someone, we won’t sit back and watch them walk into danger—whether spiritually, emotionally, or physically—without warning them. Love requires courage. It means stepping up to share God’s truth, even when it’s unpopular.
What Jesus Did for Us
Romans 5:8 (ESV) says, “But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Jesus took the punishment for our sins so that we could be reconciled to God. He bore our sins on the cross, as stated in 1 Peter 2:24 (ESV): “He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed.”
Through His sacrifice, Jesus provided the way for us to receive eternal life. John 3:16 (ESV) declares, “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.” His resurrection conquered sin and death, offering us victory in Him (1 Corinthians 15:55-57).
Love Confronts Sin with Grace
Jesus never shied away from speaking truth. When He encountered the woman at the well (John 4:1-26), He lovingly pointed out her sin, but He also offered her grace. He didn’t condemn her—He called her to something better. That’s what real love does. It doesn’t ignore sin; it confronts it with the hope of redemption.
Love Warns of Eternal Consequences
Perhaps the hardest truth to share is the reality of sin and its consequences. Romans 6:23 (ESV) says, “For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” If we truly love people, we cannot be silent about eternity. We must tell them about the hope and salvation found in Jesus Christ.
Love Does Not Enable Destruction
Love doesn’t mean tolerating everything for the sake of peace. It doesn’t mean supporting harmful behaviors or remaining silent when someone is making destructive choices. Proverbs 27:6 (ESV) says, “Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy.” True friends don’t flatter; they sharpen each other (Proverbs 27:17).
Love Stands Firm in Truth
In a world that promotes subjective truth, we must stand on the unchanging truth of God’s Word. 1 Corinthians 16:13-14 (ESV) instructs us, “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.” Our goal isn’t to win arguments, but to win souls. Love must be the foundation of our words and actions.
I Love You Enough to Tell You
So today, let me say this: I love you enough to tell you that Jesus is the only way, truth, and life (John 14:6). I love you enough to tell you that sin separates us from God, but His grace is greater. I love you enough to tell you that real peace and purpose are found in Christ alone. And I love you enough to encourage you to walk in obedience to Him, even when it’s hard.
Speaking truth in love isn’t always easy, but it is necessary. Love isn’t silent. Love speaks, because love saves.
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