Dealing with unforgiveness

Rev Randy Brummitt

I believe will help you in this area of honor and forgiveness
About a decade ago, I had an experience that took place in my life
That was very, very hurtful.

After that experience, I slowly began to slide into a state of
Solemness
Really
I began to be depressed and I began to feed on what happened?
I began to feed
I began to cultivate and here’s a principle, I’ve only stayed at home with the details
What you feed in your life
Physically, spiritually, mentally, otherwise
Will grow to what you start
And I learned a valuable lesson
Because people would say
Hey, did so and so do so and so do you
I said
I began to cultivate
The germination of unforgiveness in my life
And as much as I prayed for crop failure, it just went bad
It kept getting worse and worse
I remember one day when I was praying
I was reading God’s Word
And without a doubt
I think that the Holy Spirit was saying this to my heart
Randy, you must forgive me
It wasn’t a suggestion
And it was a spiritual man
Because I knew
The toxic effects of unforgiveness
That I had taught on
That I had helped others walk through
And I knew better
But the grip was there
The sword had already pierced my heart
And I was feet
As I read the Word of God
And simply prayed for unforgiveness to leave
I knew
I was challenged
With a much more difficult task
And I knew that the Holy Spirit through God’s Word was saying to me
Randy, you need to pray for that person
And you need to bless them
Through the scriptures
I could quote text after text
About blessing those who personally being good to those
Who despitefully use you and persecute you
And all of that was in my mind, even my heart
But I had to make a choice
I had to begin to call the name of that person out in prayer
And I had to begin to bless the heavenly Father
Bless this person
Or bless the minister to
I prayed for their family
I prayed and I felt nothing
The Holy Spirit spoke to me yet again
Through God’s Word and said,
Randy, you need to bless the person who hurt you
Like you want me to bless you
Pray for them
Like you prayed for yourself to be blessed
So I did
I began to pray for them
I began to pray for them to be blessed
I began to pray for God
To do something in their life
That would be miraculous, spontaneous
There would just bless their songs on
And I felt nothing
I was about a month ahead by now
For him
I had to continue to pray
Let me teach you a principle
Your emotions will
Evidently light
Just because you feel nothing
I kept praying
It was weeks later
I spent almost two months praying
Before I felt it
Now let me give you a tangible pertinence
A pertinence example
Those who fly single engine planes
They are number one
Risk of Christ
Here’s why they crash
While they’re flying
They look at their ultimate
You are ascending
Flying
Correctly
Everything is fine
And yet they’re in a cloud bank
That fog of cloudiness
I was in there spiritually
It was called unforgiveness
The cloud bank of those gifts
Well these pilots are in a literal cloud bank
And they can’t see anything
And because they can’t see it
None of them behind them
Their emotions begin to lie to them
And they’re descending
And you can pull out of it
Well because they trust their emotion
And not the instrument panel
They end up in a crash-dive situation
Descending
They can never pull out of it
And they crash
Not one reason
Small planes crash
And the emotions lie to the pilot
Instead of believing the instrument panel
Which you can trust
They put their emotions

From God
From the word of God
Was absolutely
Freshness
After I prayed
I prayed for the person
Who had offended me
I prayed for them
God would bless them
As much as I prayed for God
To bless me and for what
And about two months in
Guess what happened
The damper
It jumped up when I think about it
God said
Really
You feel something
Yes, what I feel
What you feel right is
That pain
And don’t Jesus what you mean
Randy the only way you know this person
Is through what they did to you
But I know them
But what happened to them
I say that again
Randy the only way you know this person
Is through what they did to you
But I know them
Through what happened to them
And then I begin to realize
That person as a child
A teenager
Traumatized
They were traumatized so greatly
That hurting people, hurting people, hurting people
And that hurt
Inside of them
It’s been oozing out
As it appeared that they were lying
Others rejected others
Probably many other ways
And friend, you’re in one of these two categories today
You’re either a hurting person that’s hurting people
For you’re the walking one bit
For being hurt
And you need to learn how to forgive
The enemy of your soul doesn’t care if you’re the person who’s causing the hurt
Or receive the hurt
He wants to destroy the way
Today I want to pray for you
Because I pray for those on this face to the way
That in the name of Jesus
God will do something in you
Greater than what has been done to you
Begin to pray for the person that hurt you
Call their name
Number two, begin to bless them
Thirdly, let that blessing in them
Equal or surpass
Your prayers for God to bless you
Then something will happen
It may take six to eight weeks
Like it never did with me
But boom
Is it better than the other person taught you
But yeah, to see the optics
Of a living heavenly Father
Who also sees you
Not for what you’ve done to others
But for what’s been done to you
See, the trauma in your life
Has caused you to hurt others
So I pray to the name of Jesus
First of all, if you’re the walking wounded
If you’ve been hurt in trauma times
Then we, none of us, get out of this life
But I pray for you right now
The name of Jesus
Make your hurt
What has been done to you
The trauma
That’s been done to you
Would begin to be healed with the name of Jesus
A bruised reed, I will not break
The Bible says
Of Jesus
A bruised reed
Imagine a lemon tree that’s been broken
And while we’re going to break it off
Not Jesus
It brings that lemon back
You’re perhaps it
It holds it in place
Until it is alive
That’s what it’s going to do for you
Jesus, and I pray for you
And for your experiencing
Anger, dial, and forgive us
Maybe even hatred that you fought towards someone else
I pray that you’ll begin to bless people in it today
That as you begin to do that
That blessing will come to fruition
Your life
Your emotions will be awakened
Your empathy
Thank you Holy Spirit
For others will be
A growing
Aspect of your life
Listen, try to fall for perfect
For I have more empathy today
And I’ve never had a whole life
And I can’t live in a painful process
If I’ve wanted to have it for you
Someone who had hurt me
I pray the same for you friend
Your greatest days of your hair
Be an extension of Jesus
Be a friend

Rev Randy Brummitt

My Comment

It’s clear from your story that you’ve experienced deep hurt and struggled with unforgiveness, yet found a path to healing through prayer and obedience to God’s Word. In similar times of hurt, I find it helpful to remember Ephesians 4:31-32 (ESV), which says, “Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” This scripture underscores the importance of letting go of negative emotions and choosing to forgive as Christ forgave us. Your journey of praying for the person who hurt you, even when it was difficult, embodies this principle of forgiveness and highlights the transformative power of aligning our actions with God’s commands.

Christians who seek the benefits of faith without commitment

There are so many people in Christianity today, who want the quick fast track

They want the byproducts of a relationship with God without the relationship

They want the byproducts of salvation without salvation

They want the byproducts of repentance without repentance

They want forgiveness without repentance

They want salvation without submission

John MacArthur: Christianity Today

In his quote, John MacArthur criticizes a prevalent attitude among some Christians who seek the benefits of faith without committing to its core principles. He argues that many people desire the positive outcomes associated with a relationship with God—such as salvation, repentance, forgiveness, and ultimately salvation—without engaging in the necessary spiritual disciplines and commitments, such as a genuine relationship with God, true repentance, and submission to His will. MacArthur suggests that this approach undermines the essence of Christianity, which requires sincere dedication and transformation.

Summary

In today’s self-centered world, many prioritize personal feelings over reality. However, God represents the true reality through the saving power of Jesus Christ. He is calling you to return to your Creator and embrace this truth today.

What is expected of Christian’s under the New Covenant?

Under the New Covenant of Jesus Christ, Christians are expected to follow the teachings of Jesus and live according to His commandments. Here are some key aspects of what is expected of Christians:

  1. Faith in Jesus Christ: Christians are called to believe in Jesus Christ as the Son of God and Savior.
  • John 3:16 (ESV): “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.”

1. Repentance and Forgiveness of Sins: Christians are called to repent of their sins and seek forgiveness through Jesus Christ.

  • Acts 2:38 (ESV): “And Peter said to them, ‘Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.'”

2. Love for God and Others: Christians are called to love God with all their heart, soul, and mind, and to love their neighbors as themselves.

  • Matthew 22:37-39 (ESV): “And he said to him, ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.'”

3. Living a Holy Life: Christians are called to live holy lives, set apart for God’s purposes, and to pursue righteousness.

  • 1 Peter 1:15-16 (ESV): “But as he who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, since it is written, ‘You shall be holy, for I am holy.'”

4. Following Jesus’s Teachings: Christians are expected to follow the teachings of Jesus, including His moral teachings and commandments.

5. Spreading the Gospel: Christians are called to share the good news of Jesus Christ and make disciples of all nations.

  • Matthew 28:19-20 (ESV): “Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”

These are foundational expectations for Christians under the New Covenant, as outlined in the teachings of Jesus and the apostles in the New Testament of the Bible.


Jesus summarized His commandments and teachings in several key passages in the New Testament. Here are some of the most prominent ones:

  1. The Great Commandment – Love God and Love Your Neighbor:
  • Matthew 22:37-40 (ESV): “And he said to him, ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets.'”
  1. The Golden Rule – Treat Others as You Want to Be Treated:
  • Matthew 7:12 (ESV): “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.”
  1. The Sermon on the Mount – A comprehensive teaching on various aspects of Christian living, including humility, forgiveness, prayer, and righteousness:
  • Matthew 5-7 (ESV): This entire section contains many of Jesus’s teachings, including the Beatitudes (Matthew 5:3-12 (ESV)), instructions on prayer (Matthew 6:5-15 (ESV)), and ethical teachings on various topics.
  1. The New Commandment – Love One Another:
  • John 13:34-35 (ESV): “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples if you have love for one another.”
  1. The Great Commission – Make Disciples of All Nations:
  • Matthew 28:19-20 (ESV): “Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”
  1. The Parable of the Good Samaritan – Show Mercy and Compassion:
  • Luke 10:25-37 (ESV): This parable illustrates the importance of showing mercy and compassion to others, regardless of their background or circumstances.

These teachings encapsulate the essence of Jesus’s message and the principles He wanted His followers to live by. They emphasize love, compassion, humility, and obedience to God’s will.

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Praying for God, Country and Individuals

Praying for God, country, and individuals serves various purposes and is motivated by different aspects of faith and moral responsibility. Here are some reasons why people may choose to pray for these entities:

1. Connection with God:

   – Communion: Prayer is a means of communing with God, expressing gratitude, seeking guidance, and deepening one’s relationship with the divine.

  • “But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.” – Matthew 6:6 (NIV)
  • “Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 (NIV)

2. For the Country:

   – Peace and Well-being: Praying for the country often includes asking for peace, stability, and prosperity. Individuals may pray for their nation’s leaders, citizens, and overall welfare.

  • “If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land.” – 2 Chronicles 7:14 (NIV)
  • “Pray for the peace of Jerusalem: ‘May those who love you be secure.'” – Psalm 122:6 (NIV)

   – Righteous Governance: People might pray for leaders to make just and wise decisions, following principles that align with ethical and moral values.

  • “When the righteous thrive, the people rejoice; when the wicked rule, the people groan.” – Proverbs 29:2 (NIV)
  • “I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people— for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness.” – 1 Timothy 2:1-2 (NIV)

3. For Individuals:

   – Healing and Comfort: Prayers for individuals often involve seeking healing, comfort, and strength during times of illness, distress, or sorrow.

  • “Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord.” – James 5:14 (NIV)
  • “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” – Psalm 147:3 (NIV)

   – Guidance and Wisdom: Individuals may pray for themselves and others to receive guidance, wisdom, and discernment in making important life decisions.

  • “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” – James 1:5 (NIV)
  • “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.” – Psalm 32:8 (NIV)

4. Altruism and Compassion:

   – Empathy: Praying for others reflects a sense of empathy and compassion, recognizing the interconnectedness of all people and expressing a desire for their well-being.

  • “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ.” – Galatians 6:2 (NIV)
  • “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.” – Romans 12:15 (NIV)

   – Love and Care: Praying for individuals, including those we may not know personally, demonstrates a commitment to love, care, and support one another.

  • “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” – John 13:34 (NIV)
  • “And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” – Colossians 3:14 (NIV)

5. Aligning with Spiritual Values:

   – Seeking God’s Will: Praying for God involves aligning oneself with God’s will and seeking to be instruments of divine purpose in the world.

  • “This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us.” – 1 John 5:14 (NIV)
  • “Teach me to do your will, for you are my God; may your good Spirit lead me on level ground.” – Psalm 143:10 (NIV)

   – Reflecting Virtues: Praying for the well-being of others reflects virtues such as kindness, humility, and selflessness, which are often central to various religious teachings.

  • “Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.” – Colossians 3:12 (NIV)
  • “Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.” – Philippians 4:5 (NIV)

6. Promoting Unity and Harmony:

   – Unity in Diversity: Praying for a country and its people can promote a sense of unity and harmony, encouraging individuals to focus on shared values and common goals.

  • “So in Christ Jesus, you are all children of God through faith, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” – Galatians 3:26-28 (NIV)
  • “Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” – Ephesians 4:3 (NIV)

   – Forgiveness and Reconciliation: Prayers may include requests for forgiveness, reconciliation, and the healing of divisions within communities and nations.

  • “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.” – Matthew 6:14 (NIV)
  • “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” – Colossians 3:13 (NIV)

It’s important to note that the reasons for prayer is often seen as a way to express one’s faith, seek divine intervention, and contribute to the well-being of the broader community.



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Jeremiah had to wait

When you under stand that God is never late, you wait differently.

By Jon Curtis

What is funny is I was reading in Jeremiah earlier this week and in Jeremiah 42:7 (NLT) it says: “Ten days later the LORD gave his reply to Jeremiah.” 

It was one of the first times I It was one of the first times I can recall  reading an actual number of days it took for the lord to answer  a prayer in the bible and it brought some comfort knowing that even  Jeremiah had to wait.

Comment was by Anthony Thorn


There are numerous instances in the Bible where people had to wait for an answer to their prayers. Here is a more comprehensive list of such instances:

  1. Abraham and Sarah’s Prayer for a Son (Genesis 15, 17, 18): They waited for many years for the fulfillment of God’s promise of a son, Isaac.
  2. Jacob’s Prayer for Blessing and Forgiveness (Genesis 32): Jacob wrestled with God and prayed for a blessing and forgiveness, which was granted but not immediately.
  3. Moses’ Prayer for God’s Presence (Exodus 33): Moses prayed to see God’s glory and had to wait for God’s response.
  4. Israel’s Cry in Egypt (Exodus 2): The Israelites cried out to God in their slavery, and it took time before God sent Moses to deliver them.
  5. David’s Repentance and Forgiveness (Psalm 51): David prayed for forgiveness after his sin with Bathsheba, and he had to wait for God’s response.
  6. Elijah’s Prayer for Rain (1 Kings 18): Elijah prayed for rain to end a drought, and he had to wait for the rain to come.
  7. The Canaanite Woman’s Faith (Matthew 15): The Canaanite woman asked Jesus to heal her daughter, and Jesus initially tested her faith before granting her request.
  8. The Healing of the Blind Man (Mark 8): Jesus healed a blind man in two stages, suggesting that the man had to wait for complete healing.
  9. Paul’s Thorn in the Flesh (2 Corinthians 12): The Apostle Paul prayed for the removal of a thorn in the flesh and had to wait for God’s response.
  10. Jesus’ Prayer in Gethsemane (Matthew 26): Jesus prayed for the cup of suffering to pass from Him, but ultimately accepted God’s will after waiting and praying.
  11. The Waiting of the Saints in Revelation (Revelation 6:9-11): The martyred saints in heaven are described as waiting for God’s judgment and vindication.

These examples illustrate the biblical theme of waiting for God’s timing and response in prayer. They emphasize the importance of patience, faith, and trust in God’s plan.


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We are here to present the gospel message to the world around us, in doing so it is up to each individual, as to what they want to do with this message, to deny or accept it.

If you deny Him, then we want to pray for you, that God would speak to you. Go to our website link and ask us to pray for you: Prayer Requests – Hiding Place Ministry

If you accept him, then we want to be there to help you grow in the things Jesus taught, throughout the scriptures. So, you can be the person that God wants you to be.

We are here for you, though this may take so much time on both our parts, We are happy to do so, and we want you to know we care about you and your relationship with God.

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